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What is a female orgasm?
We're writing this explanation in the assumption that you - the reader - are male. But what follows will be of interest to a lot of female readers too. What happens in a woman's body during a climax is very like what happens in your (male) body when you ejaculate. In other words, there's a feeling of increasing excitement, building up to a point where everything 'blows' in a great blast of ecstasy. This 'orgasmic moment' is characterised by surges of contractions in the sex organs, occurring almost every 0.8 seconds.

Men are well aware that these throbs of pleasure are accompanied by the pumping out of spurts of seminal fluid. Obviously this doesn't happen in women. A few females do produce some fluid at orgasm, but the impression given in so many erotic stories that most women 'ejaculate' is not correct. Only a minority of females do this.

Multiple orgasm.
The other big difference between male and female orgasm is this: after the first climax, many women can 'come' again, often within a minute or two. This ability is extremely rare in males. Relatively few young women can achieve multiple orgasm, because it's an ability that usually has to be learned. But with the help of a skilled lover, most women can eventually achieve the capacity for multiple orgasms - if they so desire.

Bringing women to a climax.
For men perhaps the most important thing to realise about female climaxes is that with women, it's not a mechanical thing - as it generally is with men. You see, most males will ejaculate quite quickly if they have their penises rubbed. This applies even if the circumstances aren't very romantic - or even if they don't particularly like the person who's doing the rubbing! Women are not like this! Female orgasm isn't a push-button response. The conditions have to be right. Although females vary, many women need the following if they're going to reach a climax:
-a romantic atmosphere
-pleasant, comfortable surroundings
-a partner who they really like
-a feeling of being wanted and appreciated
-a good flow of natural lubrication - so that the delicate female parts don't get sore
-a skilled partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris. Unless you can provide the above, you are not going to have great success in giving your partner orgasms.

Please bear in mind that - contrary to what many men think - sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman's clitoris. Nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth. What to do:

In summary, here's what to do if you want to bring your partner to orgasm regularly:
-don't be in a rush.
-don't be too demanding - it's not an Olympic event.
-talk to your partner, and ask her what she wants you to do to her.
-always create a romantic atmosphere.
-make sure that everything is comfortable and nice for her.
-give her lots of kisses and cuddles before you even think about making any approach to her sexual area.
-when you do start to stroke, rub or kiss her genitals, don't rush into 'attacking' her clitoris. Take things gently, and see what she wants.
-use her own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris. (If she is over 40, it may be a good idea to use some additional lubrication from a chemist or a sex shop).
-remember that stimulation of the clitoris is the key to female orgasm.
-sometimes encourage her to run your sex sessions. You can learn a lot by watching how she stimulates herself or by really listening to her when she suggests a sex position, or a particular caress.

This is a good article i stumbled upon, and my oh my i definetly agree to this writer. All men should learn the art of orgasm in order for their women to stay vigilant and sexually loyal to them. Don't you agree?
I mean, what is sex without the orgasm?
What is love-making without the moans and the groans and each other climaxing?

Ok people, let's revert the topic.

It's also another article i stumble upon while researching about drunk driving. And here's a catchy yet heart-slammingly sad story. Her name's Jacqueline Saburido, and this is her story.

Not everyone who gets hit by a drunk driver dies.

She was hit by a car in late 1999 that was driven by an 18-year old drunkard. She was pinned at the front seat and within minutes her vehicle caught fire. Two of her close friends died on the spot while she was rescued, 60% of her body badly burnt.

Till today, she's fighting to recover. Her face is unrecognisable and people, imagine her agony. If you think you've been tested and pained in life; think again.She's a changed person, and i wish her all the best in her recovery.

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As of right now, i have a DOG of a father. He came home cussing and swearing at us. Yeah sure, cuss all you want at us daughters but not to your recovering wife. She suffers in silence, this mother of mine. She swallows her sorrows, this mother of mine. All her life she's been tested. All her life's filled with sacrifice.She keeps that DOG in her house as a husband, but never as a worthy one. As a father of her daughters but not a dutiful one.

Let me just tell you what he's been doing for the past week. Smoking bong and getting all high till the wee hours of the morning. Complaining of too much workload when all he does is laundry. Goes out and meets his friends till 3 am. Neglecting the business. He's still a kid. Not grown up yet.

A fucked up person he is, and im just sad. I'm too matured to rebel, but i will turn my back against him one day. I'd probably kill him.
This anger, the rage and the vengeance on how much i see my mother suffer in silence under the brutality of a man i call father.

This sinful world we live in, is full of hypocrites.

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