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Monday, April 03, 2006
For the singles. 10:25 PM

I am officially single, if you haven't noticed. I haven't been mentioning about him much often either.
Life is better this way i suppose, and i can't really imagine myself being in a relationship right now.
Maybe that's not what i need.

And so i'm doing my usual browsing through the internet in search of good articles to share..
..and i came upon this one that states about life after a break up.

It goes -

'So, you've found out that Mr. or Miss Right isn't the soul mate you've always dreamed about. Now what? The period of loss and pain doesn't have to extend on to an eternity of what ifs. After spending a few days wallowing in self-pity, you'll probably want to start making a few steps towards life after love. To help ease this transition, try a few of the following ideas.

Keep a daily journal.
Letting loose on your emotions is a quick and self-healing way to recover from incidents of loss and pain. This is especially true of keeping a journal. Make a commitment to write for at least a few minutes every day.

Learn at least one new thing a day.
Keep your mind busy with new information. Whether you decide to learn a new word or how to do something new on your computer, it will help you keep moving forward instead of looking back.


Take a daily walk.
Get yourself out and about with a 20 to 30 minute walk. Just the constant, repetitive motion of moving your legs one after another is enough to help you put things in perspective.

Go out with yourself.
Just because you are not attached to someone doesn't mean you can't enjoy going out. Think of it as a chance to go to all the places you've always wanted to go.

Develop a hobby.
Maybe there is something you've always wanted to learn how to do. Now is the perfect opportunity to develop it! Try anything from bicycling, joining a walking club, sewing, bodyboarding or surfing, learning how to watercolor, or cooking.

I think i'm pretty much doing those things.I do keep a daily journal,i learn new things everyday. Like for yesterday, i learnt that a certain kind of chemical if taken in a large dose can cause damage to the kidneys.
I walk alot everyday. I walk from Bugis MRT to school alone, and that's enough a walk for my mind to wander.Developing a hobby? well does exercise count? coz i have been doing push ups in the toilets whenever i bathe. and oh ya! i started collecting Zouk postcards and all sorts. so yes, i think im handling Life after Love well.

That's cause i can't be the least bit bothered with the ex-boyfriend. Yeah sure we're still in contact, but my feelings for him are minimal now. Love just faded, i guess.

Ok so it seems that Wany's star sign is giving her ibby-jibbies uh. All happy for the inner package? oh what the hell, it's fun to believe in such things sometimes. Though i must say my personality isn't based on the star that i am, i am just me.

Have a great day ahead ya'll. I'm off to the clinic for a FREE tyfoid jap and to the library after that to do my work. and congratulations to myself and my girls for getting the job at Spinelli. =)

I'm happy i got a second chance at FNB.Spinelli isn't so bad.And we're going to Langkawi instead of Bali this June. That's gonna have to be the highlight of the mid-year for us. Ok sweets, i'm off.

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